Many, many years ago I noticed a pattern in my romantic relationships where eventually my boyfriends would leave me ‘to go home’. One boyfriend actually moved in with me, leaving his home state and his family to do so. But it didn’t take long for him to conform to my pattern and leave me, going […]
Empaths and Shadow Work
“Shadow work is the path of the heart warrior.” Carl Jung Shadow work may seem a bit daunting at first but it’s quite simply really. It’s about seeking what is controlling your life from the unconscious, making it conscious so that you understand and integrate those hidden parts of you. It is important to understand […]
Don’t Expect Someone Else Will Heal You
There’s a bit of talk going around at the moment it seems. People talking about negative experiences from going to a ‘healer’, they are expecting someone else to heal them and this can be a very tricky process.
There is a great difference between the healer that claims that they can heal you and a healer that assists you in the process of healing. Unfortunately there may be no word to differentiate between the two.
While there are authentic healers out there, there are also healers with a dark agenda, whether they are conscious of it or not. It is known as ‘New Age Spiritual Abuse’ where this type of healer is influenced by dark energies (consciously or unconsciously) to affect someone’s spiritual journey in a negative way. Those affected can take a long time to figure this out, or not at all and is more common than you might think.
An Empaths Journey Home
By Robyn Iacuone and Tracie
When Tracie first contacted me back in December 2017, her energy felt weak and battered, very unsure of who she was and clouded by negative feelings that were not her own. She felt lost and disconnected to her true self.
In her contact letter to me she wrote:
I have just listened to the interview you did with George Kavassilas from his website. You started the conversation with saying how important it is to understand the scenario you are born into. I have done much self-work, feels like a lifetimes worth yet the residue of this scenario still lingers.
It’s an interesting scenario of my Mum not being able to love me for the first 6 months of my life. I am a twin and my sister was born 5 minutes before me and Mum always wanted a girl, due to her need to give a girl everything she never had as a child, healing her own abuse in her childhood. I have so much honour and love for my Mum, always have done. With losing her four years ago, my healing would have been her healing also. She was an empath too, she didn’t understand herself to be one yet I would tell her she was. We walked a beautiful journey together, I hold no resentments yet can still to this day be affected by my childhood.
Heal Thy Self
The most powerful work we can do is to heal ourselves and in doing so we can also heal the planet and its people. The most powerful way, is to do the healing ourselves. I’m talking about healing ourselves on the spiritual level which will then facilitate healing on the emotional and physical levels.
“This is the most that you can really do for all humankind, is to work on your own heart space …. and enabling, teaching, and showing and sharing with everyone else that they are their own healer. So that we can get out of savior-victim consciousness.” – Kaypacha